Many a times what we did with the genuine intentions are
spurn. How does it feel when you are not believed by those you hold most close
to your heart? What happens when we look to others for understanding and we do
not get the empathy we desire or expect? Yes, how do you feel when the light
just walks away through the door and all you can do is watch helplessly!
Hmm! So that is the situation you have found yourself, what
if I ask you to relax. Yes you need to stop looking around you, when first we
need to look inward. Yes, we must start with ourselves, because most of the
things we see out there are mirage which are magnified by the little passions
and attachments we have to wither issues in our life or experiences and our
life itself.
See the idea is not to turn the heat on you, no it is to
illuminate the often forgotten aspect of why we feel the way we feel with most
of the challenges we face. For the reality is that, no light goes off, it’s our
eyes that either fails to see, accommodate or process the light that falls on
it. Yes, "we indeed like the Chinese see things the way we are and not
necessary the way the things are".
I understand that you may be plagued with a situation that
makes all the years of working to be who you are today is broken, yet have you
searched to know if you were only seeking solace or perhaps looking for excuses
to make the turn you ought to have taken. Is this a story of my spouse is not
the perfect one, or imperfection starring us in the face and we see our world
and worse fear happening right before us. Again, I pause to allow you question
if that is the real issue? Are you grabbing at straws, I want to ask?
You see the interesting thing is that we may be right in our
analysis and indeed we have been above board and the world around us has just
failed to work for us. Yet, only you can decide your response to this bad
situation and it will be good you do not follow fire with fire, it is important
you chose the in the quietness of peace and not the noisome pestilence that the
pain or disappointment creates. Yes, when the light suddenly goes off, you need
to find healing by getting light restored whether from alternative sources but
you must first find the reason why the last one failed. Your alternative source
must also not be a temporary abode, it must be the solution you really need.
A little bit of how did I get here never hurts anyone, it
keeps us in view of the real issues that need our attention. So Yes, you are
hurt, yet you are not dismayed not out of steam. Find the strength to live
first for you and then for us. You may not be the person you used to be after
this experience, but I can assure you, you are in a better place if you can
learn the lessons, make God driven decision situated in the word and move on.
Yes, our friends may share their thoughts, yet we are watered by our own
challenges and can only see as much as we are open to. You have the final say,
make those choices such as to look back in years to come you would smile at
yourself for that decision.
Nugget: No Light ever goes bleak, it’s our eyes and mind
that chooses to shut them off. Look within, there is light enough, just dare to
look.
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