Have you ever been in a situation where you have your
thoughts spread before you but you have to now assess your actions based on
what others feel? How did it feel to be under the surgical knife and be so hurt
when the operation ended? Not funny you would say. Yes indeed, the eyes of
others can be so penetrating and can so make you bare that you begin to wonder
what you were doing.
So it is okay to live in this world and also be able to marshal
through life’s entire event without the thoughts of others crossing your path.
That would be a tall order and whatever way you chose to look at it; the daily x-ray
others bring to our life can stall us and also be our leverage. You know many
times the blows we receive from those around us make us tend in the right
direction as well as make us rebellious and also can mean nothing to us.
When the nudge from others around us comes, we must first
pause and not fight it even when that is the first reaction we can muster.
Everyone who seeks to belittle us will use something that is a perceived flaw,
but they actually are making us better people by so doing. You see, your
hunches is not the option, just stop complaining or arguing the case, simply
look inward and see how you can make amends or correct your shortfalls.
You may not know it, but the more you learn to tolerate
dissenting voice the more you begin to see the better you. For in that
opposition, are your routes to greater heights. In them are the opportunities
to grow into that you that will be saner, more attuned to the realities around you?
After all being wise in our own volition is an anathema for failure. Do
remember though that to accept what others say, you must also weigh them from
the perspective of their altruism and genuineness, some are just guile and
bitterness, some are lies, yet assess we must assess them. Do not be ignorant
of the traps that many will set to take advantage of you, yet if you must know,
the world will never wait for you to catch up with it. You just need to draw
strength from the spiritual, win in the battlefield of the mind and find your
balance.
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